1) Don’t be too proud. You cannot be a doormat that he can step on. But keep the communication lines open. Don’t sleep without trying to make amends. Talk things over and try to resolve the problem.
2) Men are like little children. They still need to be cuddled and loved. They need attention. When he remembers you with thoughtful gifts, show your appreciation and compliment him. Thank him for working so hard to provide for the family.
3) Support his dreams, whatever they are. (Manny fell in love with me all over again because I campaigned for him during the 2010 elections.)
4) Find time to go on vacation with the family, be it only in Tagaytay or Baguio. Make that your bonding time.
5) Stay beautiful. Take care of your body. Stay sexy and make him proud to be with you.
6) Take time to laugh together. When you talk, don’t make it about family problems and children all the time. Flirt with him a little. Bring back your “dating” behavior.
7) Pray. Always make prayers a part of your marriage and your family. That really helps a lot.
-- as the saying goes, the family that prays together stays together, and I really believe that when a couple makes God the center of their marriage, it will be a blessed one.
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